This week, I intend to
give a brief presentation to an international audience about an organization
that is very near and dear to my heart – the Jewish-Islamic Dialogue Society of
Washington, or JIDS. It’s an odd time to
write this blogpost, because the JIDS website is in a time of transition, but
you can still access it by going to www.jids.org.
Below is what I intend
to say about JIDS, explicitly.
Implicitly, though, my point is that I would encourage efforts to
replicate it, or build upon it, in creating Jewish-Islamic dialogue societies
in other American cities and around the world.
If any of you would be interested in setting up such a society and would
like a sounding board for your ideas, you can e-mail me at creedroom@danielspiro.com.
JIDS has met monthly
from about the time Barack Obama became President. We have sponsored a range of activities in
addition to our monthly dialogues, including lectures, film viewings, and
various social action events. For
example, during each of the past few years, we have brought together dozens of
Jewish and Muslim teenagers from several local synagogues and mosques to clean
up public parks or help the homeless. On
one other occasion, we turned over the microphones to a small group of
teenagers and let them serve as the rabbis and imams for an entire session.
JIDS is devoted primarily
to the idea that Jews and Muslims are first cousins in the family of Abraham, and
that we can’t fully practice our own faith unless we steep ourselves in the
wisdom of our cousins. We are proudest
of the fact that we have formed a true community. The members of JIDS provide a safe space
where people can speak their minds. We
have matured together as a group of friends, even though we represent a wide
range of ideas on matters of faith and of politics.
So, how did this all
come to be?
First, the group was
started by laypeople – not professional clergy.
We didn’t have to worry about losing our jobs if we offended anyone. We could
just speak from the heart.
Second, we were started
by people with shared passions.
Especially in a society where so many people have given up on the Holy
Name, it was critical that JIDS was formed by folks who adore that Name. Our founders had a common beloved that was
under siege, and that brought us together.
But we also have a number of members who are atheists, and they too are
treated with complete respect, because the one thing more important to our founders
than honoring the Name is honoring God’s world by dealing with people civilly
and warmly.
Third, our founders were
mainstream enough within their faiths that nobody has questioned whether our
group authentically represents Jews and Muslims. I can’t imagine JIDS being led by Muslims who
didn’t care deeply about the plight of the Palestinians, say, or Jews who
weren’t ardent Zionists. So even though
our membership falls within a wide spectrum of philosophies, our founders had
to be within the mainstream of the communities we represent.
Fourth, we keep it
real. We didn’t want to be just another
interfaith group that speaks on a level worthy of children. We aim for intelligent high-level dialogue at
all times. And we don’t whitewash
differences between our communities – we embrace those differences.
When our group started
to meet, it wasn’t easy to keep it real.
We realized that we had to build some trust in each other. So we took on some less controversial topics
for a little while, and gradually we worked up to taking on topics like God and
the Palestinian/Israeli conflict.
Right now, we’re going
through a series of dialogues entitled “What Unifies Us/What Divides Us.” And
you can imagine that has led us to study our philosophies of God, our views
about Zionism, and other big issues. But
even when we’re taking on the topics that divide us, we remind ourselves about the
many things that bring us together as a family. For example, we point out that the words
Jihad and Israel mean the same thing – spiritual wrestling.
Ultimately, our success
is about playfully challenging one another – “You think God is great? Well think about THIS way of praising
God.” “You say you believe in peace and
justice – well I bet you haven’t considered THIS perspective?” We play with our differences as if we realize
that variety was the spice of life -- as if we take to heart that line in Surah
49 about how God made us into different tribes so that we may know each other
and not despise each other.
At JIDS, we learn that
the Jewish and Muslim tribes are indeed part of a larger Tribe – more akin to
the 12 Tribes of Israel than to being a pair of “enemies.” Perhaps our group’s proudest accomplishment
is in the way it prepares members to work in the struggle for Middle East Peace.
Whereas so many non-JIDS members lose
patience, can’t handle being around people with whom they disagree, and end up
fighting only for one side of the conflict and not the other, we at JIDS are
patient enough not to quit in the fight for peace.
JIDS forces us to be
able to hold both the Israeli Narrative and the Palestinian Narrative in our
hearts and in our minds. We have to do
that, because the most important thing for a JIDS member to be able to do isn’t
to talk but to listen. If you come to our meetings, you’ll realize
that the presentations don’t go on for very long, and most of the time is spent
letting the community members talk.
We’re a dialogue society, not a speaker’s bureau. We already have enough self-important people
in Washington D.C. – we don’t need to encourage that at JIDS. Believe it or not, we have more important
things to consider even than our own intelligence.
I hope that gives you a bit of food for
thought. We need these types of
organizations to build trust throughout our world. If you form one, there will inevitably be
growing pains, but as long as you have a committed and supportive core group,
you should be fine. And once you start
rolling, I think you’ll find that the meetings are incredibly fulfilling.
So give it a shot.
Please. For all of our sakes.
